Frank Farnham Scott (1894-1961)
Gertrude Selma Sealy (1892-1983)
maternal grandparents
Taking time to review my research notes before I begin working on an ancestor is time well spent. So is looking at old family pictures. But because the photos I have were at best sorted roughly by surname, the details, clues, and small stories didn't exactly jump out at me.
If the lack of organization wasn't enough to motivate me to do something, then my mind's horrifying
image of all the photos suddenly degrading and disappearing into a
pile of dust right before my eyes should have done the trick. Not so ‒ even that didn’t keep me from
procrastinating about organizing and storing them properly. I probably would have moved a little faster had I known that by getting the photos in order I would make a
surprising discovery about my grandfather.
Right after Christmas 2019, I finally tackled
the job – sorting, labeling, and organizing all the family photos in my
possession. There were boxes, large envelopes, photo albums with sticky,
magnetic pages, and every time I thought I was done, I found more. There were some gems in all of it – a few
tintypes, a couple of ambrotypes, carte de visites, and numerous cabinet cards,
all dating somewhere between 1860 and 1900.
I worked fairly steadily every day, completing the
project about eight weeks later. In addition to having peace of mind knowing the photos are stored
safely in archival boxes, it's now possible to quickly locate pictures of just about
anyone. With that job finished, I returned to some puzzling photos of my grandfather.
– THE MYSTERY PHOTOS –
Among the photos is a group of
four that places my grandfather in Detroit, Michigan in October 1915. This is where,
according to my mother, Grandpa attended barber school. However, that part of
his life was a complete mystery, so I wanted to find out more about the school and his experiences there. I started by taking a closer look at the photos.
The first was a small photo of twelve people
sitting on the porch steps of a house, with an older woman standing on the
porch behind them. Grandpa wrote “Frank A. Reed School, Detroit, Mich.” on the
back. This must have been a warm-up
picture before the final photo because many of the people are smiling – a rare thing
in a picture at that time. When I noticed that it made me smile, too.
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Grandpa is in the middle of the back row adjusting his tie. (Detroit, Michigan, 1915)
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A
larger picture has the same group from the smaller photo, plus two additional
people. There is a house number (387) clearly visible on the front door. I think this
was probably the final portrait of the group since everyone is behaving
themselves and sitting up straight. But was this a photo of a class of future
barbers? A few things didn’t seem right.
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Grandpa is the second from the left in the third row. |
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Of
the fourteen people on the steps, there are two boys who are clearly too young
to be away at a barber school. There are also two men who look quite a bit
older than my 21-year-old grandfather ‒ they actually look old enough to have
already established a career path. Then there are the women in the photo.
Female barbers were uncommon in 1915. So what was this place?
– AN UNEXPECTED DISCOVERY –
At this point I was sure it wasn’t a barber
school, but if not that, then what? My initial searches yielded no information
about a Frank A. Reed School in Detroit or anywhere else. Then I came upon a
set of books about the history of Detroit covering 1701–1922. (FamilySearch) It was here I found
information about the Frank A. Reed School, 387 Hubbard Avenue, Detroit,
Michigan. Jackpot!
The woman on the porch is Mrs. Etta Sellick Reed, the principal
and executive head of the school. Just as I suspected, this was not
a barber school. But I wasn’t prepared for what it actually was. The Frank A. Reed
School was a school renowned for its techniques to train people to stop stammering.
I was completely shocked. Grandpa stuttered? No one ever mentioned that. Being
a stutterer would have had a profound effect on Grandpa’s life but it’s quite
probable that the family just didn’t talk about that sort of thing.
Grandpa was about three years old
when this photo was taken by his uncle, Rodney Scott, a professional photographer in Forestville, New York. It is highly likely that Grandpa
was already stuttering when the picture was taken.
Stuttering usually presents
itself between the ages of two and six years, with boys being three to four times more
likely to stutter into adulthood than girls. There is also a genetic factor, as
there are usually other family members that stutter (NIDCD/NIH)
That makes me
wonder if someone else in Grandpa’s family might have stuttered.
My grandfather was the baby of the family. He had two older sisters, Grace, who was about nine
when this photo was taken, and Helen, who was around seven. I studied the look
on Grandpa’s face. Then I started thinking of Grandpa as the little boy in the
photo instead of the adult I knew.
I began to picture him running around and
playing. But whenever he tried to say something, he kept getting stuck on the words.
Did his sisters tease him, as siblings tend to do? Were his parents, George and
Margaret, patient with him? Did they give him time to get the words out or did
they rush him or scold him?
Thinking about what it would have been like for Grandpa a few years
later when he was in school, I envisioned
this scenario with Grandpa as a boy about age ten.
The teacher is having the students read
aloud in class. Row by row,
seat by seat, each student takes a turn. As his turn approaches, Grandpa starts
to tense up, which he knows will only
make the stuttering worse, but he can’t stop the feeling. His face starts to
get warm and he knows it’s probably turning
red. He also knows his classmates can see his discomfort. Then suddenly it’s his
turn. He begins to read and the stuttering and stammering start. So do his
classmates’ comments and giggles. He wants to crawl in a hole and disappear.
At recess, a few of his classmates imitate his stammering, point at him, and
laugh.
While scenes like this are all too familiar even today, they were more common in the early twentieth century due to a lack of knowledge and understanding of stuttering as a fluency disorder. Unfortunately, the perception of stutterers as
intellectually inferior, incompetent people still persists.
With that in mind, the realization of what my grandfather’s childhood life was probably like is heartbreaking. As a stutterer, he already faced many challenges as a young boy, and they weren't over. By the time he was ten, my grandfather experienced major life changes that tore his family apart.
– SOME BIG CHANGES –
The 1900 Federal Census, taken on
June 16, shows my grandfather's family living in the small village of Silver Creek in
Chautauqua County, New York. Grandpa’s father, George, is working as a
carpenter and his mother, Margaret Kilburn Scott, is today’s equivalent of a
stay-at-home mom. A husband, wife, and three children are living under the same
roof. It all looks good on paper. Note, however, that George and Margaret have been married twelve years, had five
children, with only three still living as of this census. George,
Margaret, Grace, 10, Helen, 9, and Frank, 5, in the 1900 Federal Census, Silver
Creek, Chautauqua County, New York. (Ancestry.com)
The 1905 New York State Census
tells a completely different tale. Margaret, 36, is listed as the head of household,
so Grandpa’s parents separated or divorced sometime in the five years between censuses. The strain of
their disintegrating marriage would most certainly have caused a great deal of
tension in the household, a situation that would only add to Grandpa’s stress
and stuttering.
In addition to that, Grandpa, his mother, and sisters are now living in Forestville, another small village about seven miles
from Silver Creek. For some reason Grace, now 15, is boarding with DeEtta E. and Columbus Montgomery, who are unknown to me. All three children are attending school; Margaret is working as a telephone operator. My grandfather is just a few weeks shy of being eleven years old.
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Margaret
and children, Helen and Frank – 1905 New York State Census, Forestville,
Chautauqua County, New York. (Ancestry.com)
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An interior view of the Bell
Telephone Office in Hamburg, New York, showing four workers; two women
operators work at switchboard, ca. 1905-1910. (Library of Congress) |
Between 1905 and 1910, Grandpa’s parents separated or divorced, the family moved, his
sister, Grace, moved out, and his mother started working, instead of being at home as in the 1900 Census. On top of that, Grandpa had to change
schools, which meant dealing with a new set of classmates, along with the
stigma of not having a two-parent home. Whether George is nearby or not is unknown since he is nowhere to be
found in the 1905 census. In five years, everything in my grandfather's life changed except his stuttering. It was a lot for a young boy to handle.
– TRANSITION TO ADULTHOOD –
As upsetting as all the changes had to be for
everyone in the family, I would like to think the move to Forestville was
made because Grandpa’s Uncle Rodney, his father’s brother, lived there.
Margaret and the children lived within a block of him. In a best case scenario,
Rodney would have been a source of moral support for all of them.
By the time the 1910 Federal Census for New
York was taken on April 16, more big changes had taken place. Grandpa was almost
16. Grace married on February
17, 1909, then moved about ten miles away to Dunkirk, New York. Just two months later, Margaret married her second husband on April 17, 1909, and moved twelve miles away to Dayton in Cattaraugus County, New York.
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Margaret and
her second husband, Charles H. Crowell. This was a second marriage for each of
them. As in the 1900 census, the last two columns indicate that Margaret was the mother of five children, only three of whom were living in 1910. (Ancestry.com)
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This left Grandpa and Helen to fend for
themselves. They still lived in Forestville within a block of their Uncle
Rodney, who was now married. Both Grandpa and Helen were working for the
telephone company, she as an operator and he as an operator’s helper, as seen
in the last two columns of the census record below. Perhaps he was considered
too young to be an operator or maybe that job was for females only but, most
certainly, Grandpa’s stuttering would likely have precluded him from that
position.
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Grandpa and sister, Helen, in the 1910 Federal Census, Forestville, Chautauqua County, New York, taken April 16, 1910. (Ancestry.com) |
In October 1912, Helen married and moved to
Buffalo. At barely 18 years old, my grandfather was alone. Currently,
the time between Helen’s marriage in 1912 and the summer of 1915 is a blank. What happened in those three years? Did
Grandpa end up staying in the house he and Helen had shared, did he move
someplace else, or did he stay with his Uncle Rodney? Did his sisters and
mother stay in touch and did he ever hear from his father? So many unanswered questions.
– ON HIS OWN –
While
there is no record of Grandpa in the 1915 New York State Census, the now
organized family photos offered some clues as to his whereabouts in the summer
of 1915. I found him in Gerry, another small village in Chautauqua County, twenty-three
miles from Forestville. I don’t know why he went there originally, or if he
actually lived there at that time, but
I do know from the photos that he was socializing with people and, somewhere
along the way he met my
grandmother, Gertrude Sealy.
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Summer 1915 – Left: Gertrude
Sealy, my grandmother, and Grandpa holding his camera – most likely
taken in Gerry, New York. Right: Grandpa looking pretty sharp in his suit, hat, and two-tone wingtip shoes with his Brownie camera next to him.
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– THE REED SCHOOL & BELLE ISLE PARK, DETROIT –
It must have been around this time that Grandpa found out about The Reed School in Detroit. Below is an advertisement that he, a friend, or someone in the family might have come across in a magazine or newspaper.
By the fall of 1915, my grandfather was in
Detroit attending a six-week session to correct his stuttering at the Frank A.
Reed School for Stammerers. Grandma and
Grandpa were married the following summer on June 26, 1916.
I
will probably never know the circumstances surrounding Grandpa’s stuttering – the
causes, if there was anyone else in the family that stuttered, how he found out
about the school, if he was able to control his stuttering after attending The
Reed School, or even how he was able to pay for it. I will just have to live
with those unknowns and be satisfied that in the process of trying to find out
more about Grandpa’s experiences in barber school, I instead discovered
something new and very significant about his life.
The
barber school mystery remains unsolved.
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While in Detroit, it appears Grandpa did find a little time
to relax with a few of his friends from school and enjoy beautiful Belle Isle
Park, not far from The Reed School.
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Taken at Belle Isle Park, Detroit, Michigan – Grandpa is on the right.
He wrote the date and place on the back; the blue ink is mine. |
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The Reed School was about eight miles from Belle Isle Park. There was a
good trolley system for transportation. (Google Maps 2020) | |
– FINAL THOUGHTS –
Mr. and Mrs. Reed founded their school in 1902
as a way to help others, given that Mr. Reed was a stutterer himself. After her husband died, Mrs. Reed continued
the work they had started together, which included not only working with stutterers,
but also with special needs students.
The
image below
is that of an ink blotter distributed by The Reed School around 1907. It
was a
way of highlighting the methods the Reeds used to address stuttering.
They
considered their methods to be natural, as opposed to what they
considered the unnatural methods used by other schools. It illustrates
the techniques
many schools were using to “cure” people of stammering – methods the Reeds
didn’t use. They did not claim to cure people but, instead, taught their
students how to break what they had determined to be the habit of stammering.
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An ink
blotter distributed by The Frank A. Reed School for Stammerers ca. 1907. (MNSU, ASHA Magazine) |
After a considerable amount of reading on the topic of stuttering, as well as the Reed
philosophy and methodology, it appears to me they were on the right track. Even though some might not consider the Reed Method
to be science-based in today’s terms, the fact remains that Mrs. Reed had a
lasting influence on the Detroit education system. Through her efforts, the Speech Correction Department of the Detroit Public Schools was
created in 1910, which is testament to the quality of her work. (MNSU, ASHA Magazine)
As
I got to know Etta Reed through her own writing and that of others, I
found her to be an intelligent, savvy businesswoman, as well as a compassionate
educator. Ultimately, Mrs. Reed must have had a good number of successes and,
hopefully, Grandpa was one of them.
– Family photos from The Scott Collection held by Jodell Bradish.
Bradish-Scott Family History – April 2020
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– Update July 2021 –
MYSTERY SOLVED!
My mother told me on many occasions that Grandpa attended barber school in Detroit. I was never
able to verify that. But after I wrote “The Barber School Mystery,” I made a happy discovery. I found the Moyler Barbering College, 215 Gratiot Avenue,
Detroit, Michigan. The school offered an eight-week course that was limited to
40 students, and it was less than three miles from the Frank A. Reed School.
This is the only reference I found for
a barber school in the Detroit area, so it
would have to be the school Grandpa attended. It makes me wonder if Grandpa took the barbering course and the six-week course at the Frank A. Reed School for Stammerers back-to-back to minimize travel expenses back to Chautauqua County.
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